Oh, the smallbear might very well decide she wants to be a stay-at-home-mom and raise -- even homeschool, perhaps! -- her kidlets -- but it will be HER choice. And that boy would need to be handing over a very large pay packet to her every week to facilitate this lifestyle. She is not going to select a boy that wants to control the budget.
The smallbear does have one friend that would consider your brother a dream come true. There ARE a few girls looking for Elijah and his fellow thinkers.