My smallbear is not looking for a boy like Elijah. She is the same age as Anna, but would not be willing to do that whole "take care of mom&dad forever" thing either. Nor would I encourage it. My mom has a cousin that got stuck in that box -- she ended up taking care of her mom for her entire life, and every time she found a possible beau, her mother "took ill" until her chances for a relationship were gone.